BE WISE NOT TO BE USED AND DUMPED

 Reasons Why Some Ladies Are Used And Dumped

Ladies have made themselves preys to bad guys, while the bad guys are predators. These are some of the reasons why some ladies are easily used and dumped:

1. Some ladies are too materialistic. When a rich guy woos her, she becomes carried away by the wealth of the guy. She starts falling in love with the guy because of his money. The guy takes advantage of her and uses money to confuse her. The lady freely gives her body to him. When the guy is tired, he dumps her and picks another lady.

2.Some girls are easily deceived with sweet words. Just tell them sweet lies and they will open their legs for you without thinking twice. Guys use sweet lies to lure girls to bed.

3 Almost all ladies like the words: "I will marry you". The moment a guy tells a girl that he will marry her, she quickly opens her legs for the guy without thinking twice. The guy then uses and dumps her.

4. Some guys use engagement ring to deceive ladies, lure them to bed, use and dump them.

5. Ladies are too emotional. A lady gives all her body and soul to her guy, while guy gives her only his body; (except if the guy truly loves her).

SOLUTIONS TO THE PROBLEM:

1. Do not have sex with a guy who has not yet married you, if you can.

2. Even if he has given you an engagement ring, do not open your legs for him. Engagement ring is not a guarantee that he will marry you.

3. Do not be carried away by the handsome face of a guy. Even angel Lucifer(Satan) is a very handsome and beautiful angel. So never you date a guy because of his handsome face.

4. Make investigation about the type of person you are dating. Ask questions about him from his friends and neighbours. Don't date someone blindly.

5. Do not be materialistic.

6. When a guy tells you sweet words, make a secret research to find out weather those sweet words are true or not.

7. If he says he loves you, test him to find out.

BUILD THAT MARRIAGE

Marriage is a cardinal aspect of a man's life. The day you got married, is like you bought a piece of land. Can you live in the ordinary land? of course no, you need to raise a structure. Likewise the marriage. Before you decided to buy a land, you had a mental picture of the kind of structure you want to erect there. But unfortunately, many young people don't have any clear picture of the kind of marriage they desire. 

The big strong and concrete buildings you see around, has a lot to do with the materials used. Young man, do you have materials to assist you in building your marriage? How many books on marriage and family life have you read, How many sound Christian movies on marriage and family life have you watched, how many marriage seminars have you attended? Do you even have a spiritual mentor that is vast in the word of God, how many messages have you listened to on marriage, how many verses of the scripture on marriage have you read and stored in your heart? 

I discovered that why many Christian marriages are failing is because the pastor does not have a detailed marriage section with intending couples. In your marriage section or class, were they taught on: 

*Communication in marriage

*Conflicts in marriage

*Adaptation and Adjustment in marriage

* In-laws undue interference in marriage. 

* Challeges in intertribal marriages. 

* Sexuality in marriage

* Marriage and carreer

* Marriage and ministry

* Child Training

* Marriage and Temperament

* Marriage and relationship between siblings and parents. Etc. 

Note those are a tip of the iceberg. They are just course titles with series of topics under each of them. After that, there should be serious and series of tests, quizzes and practical assignments. They should be told to buy some books and complex questions asked about it. They should have series of PRAYERS section, each of them should share his or her Revelations with the pastor or his delegate. The leadership should spend time to pray for them on his own. Have a great listen ear for them. A sister and daughter spend time to share with me her experiences and while we were discussing, the Lord took me to the various states she visited and I asked her about the things the Lord told me right on the spot and she confirmed them. In another scene, the Lord revealed to me a very big monkey like demon with a Yoruba name. We prayed and she became delivered and today she is happily married. 

Pastor, if you have a strong passion for your members, God will open your eyes and show you things about them. 

Are you happy to hear that the marriage you conducted or witnessed, after few months or years the marriage went down the drain? 

Singles I declare to you, that even if your parents didn't enjoy their marriage, you will continually enjoy yours in Jesus name.

SECRET TO SAVE YOUR KIDS

Most time we look at our children's knowledge now based on our own then without realising that the world then is not the same with the world now.

We should always look deep and ask questions about what they are doing. Most time they do us the more you see the less you see.

Most time they can use slang to deceive us. Even Bible verses we will think that our children are reading Bible without knowing that they are deceiving us.

Look at some of the words. Like Chelsea means breast, barca means buttocks and so many even some abbreviations like.

1) IWSN- I want sex now.

2) GNOC- Get naked on camera.

3) NIFOC- Naked in front of computer.

4) PIR- Parent in room.

5) CU46 - See you for sex.

6) 53X- Sex.

7) 9- Parent watching.

8) 99 -Parent gone.

9) 1174′- Party meeting place.

10) THOT- That hoe over there.

11) CID- Acid (the drug).

12) Broken- Hungover from alcohol.

13) 420- Marijuana.

14) POS- Parent over shoulder.

15) SUGARPIC- Suggestive or erotic photo.

16) KOTL- Kiss on the lips.

17) LsMIRL- Let’s meet in real life.

18) PRON- Porn.

19) TDTM- Talk dirty to me.

20) 8 -Oral sex.

21) CD9 -Parents around/Code 9.

22) IPN- I’m posting naked.

23) LH6- Let’s have sex.

24) WTTP- Want to trade pictures?

25) DOC- Drug of choice.

26) TWD- Texting while driving.

27) GYPO- Get your pants off.

28) KPC- Keeping parents clueless.

If you are a parent with grown kids who chat on phones with their mates take note of the

If you think parenting is still the same as what our parents did, You will fail...

Take to Learning.

 Please share to other parents.. And as parent we must ensure our children phones not on passwords.

God will help us so that the invested efforts in our parents won't be in vain