SIDE CHICK MATTER

 

Why do some men prefer the side chick than the front chick(wife) ?

For some times now we have heard so many times a man will be sent to early grave because of side chick. Women will be turned to emergency widow and children turned to emergency fatherless because of the side chick. 

The question here is what is the special thing about the side chick that the front chick didn't have? 

The front chick may not look like the side chick. No doubt, absolutely you are right. The front chick didn't have flat Tommy, pointed breast, curved bum like that of the side chick. I totally agree with you but why did the front chick didn't have it? What happened to her own. 

Let us go back to the memory lane;

1. Could you remember when you saw her(front chick) for the first time in life? 

2. Could you remember the sleepless night before she said yes? 

3. Could you remember the gift for her to say yes? 

4. Could you remember the joy whenever she spoke with you? 

6. Could you remember the joy of having her then? 

Now, what happened to all those experiences? Is it because she have produced child(ren) for you and those look disappeared. You think so? 

You may say that she is no longer taking care of herself and she now look old. My brother come home now let us reason together. She is taking care of your home and kid(s) you should take care of her likewise. Because of your kid(s) she didn't have time to take care of herself. So it's your responsibility to take care of her. 

Moreso, she look this way now because you that suppose to be her mirror have left your duty post. You are busy comparing her with someone that has never sat down to think how she can make her children and husband  happy. You are comparing her to a side chick that is living fine because of the financial contribution from different men. You are comparing her to the side chick that have men that fills her emotional tank. 

Your front chick is like this now because you stop looking at her. You stopped  calling her. You stopped asking how she is feeling. You stopped that romantic touch. You stopped sending recharge card. You stop buying this shawarma. You stopped filling her emotional tank, you stopped giving her undivided attention. She lack quality time and conversation. You have diverted all that to side chick and abandoned the front chick. Her emotional tank is totally empty 

If you can take a snap shot of those dress that the side chick puts on to get your attention, go to market buy it for her. Give her peace and emotional security you will see her look better than that side chick. 

Instead of taking the side chick out take the front chick out. Her outing shouldn't be only women meeting, church work or business. Flex her again, she is still that babe. That your highper killer, she is still that hottest girl in town. Get those meat, juice and what have you for her you will see her body coming back like before 

Make out time to assist her in her domestic work so that she can have time to rest. Let her have the muscling special touch from you again . 

For you, you may have said that side chick can't kill you or can't do this or that to you. I wish same to you but remember no one heap a charcoal of fire on his lap with his lap been burnt. That you are not a victim today is not a guarantee that such can't happen. The victims now can never believe that such could happened. But it is not my wish that it will happen but it's my desire that you didn't continue keeping the side chick anymore. Though she might not kill you but can you be sure of her health status? I guess no. Hope you no the implications to your own children and generation? 

My sister, the side chick, don't be offended but listen. How will you feel if you marry and  your husband decided to keep side chick? I guess sad. You no what goes around come around. You may need money yes I know but it shouldn't be by robbing someone's husband. Sister, babe work hard the money will come. Manage the little you have. Save your future. It comes back in different ways. Many that have had the trouble life as a result of this most of them can't come back and tell you the truth. Men can promise you anything or even give you anything to sleep with you. But after that, he won't regard you again. Your value drops as soon as he sleep with you. The whole regard will die. He will still be calling you but inside his mind you are gone. Do you know when you turn a speedy fan off, it won't stop immediately. But it takes time to stop. 

So be wise and be useful 

Honorable men, the bride of the father, don't turn this woman to widow or those children to fatherless because of the side chick. They still need you. The enjoyment with the side chick is temporal but the suffering is perpetual. Let maintain our fatherhood dignity by respecting our home, culture, creator and generation. 

I hope I have not made you angry. 

I so much love you and wish all the best for you. 

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